After reading the post, I realized that you've articulated so well what makes me a shipper as well. I might want a couple to be together, but I want them to FIGHT to be together more. Easy love is boring love in my book.

Also, you didn't mention them as a couple you ship, so perhaps you do not watch the show. But may I recommend Chuck and Blair from "Gossip Girl"? Their non-relationship makes me all kinds of shippy.